Sunday, September 7, 2025

Important things...

 There are some important "new" things finding places to settle here at FairWinds. These things belonged to my sister Diane, who died over twenty years ago, far too young. "Dicy" was a character and dearly loved by many. She had quirky, eclectic taste, and wherever she lived, her home was filled with wondrous objects, delightful to see. Last week, her partner contacted me and asked if I wanted a few of those things. She is selling the home they shared and had a few items to gift. She kindly dropped them off with Chris at work, filling his car with memories. 

Dicy had this horse as long as I can remember, and it looks fine on top of a cabinet in our living room. 



I'm pretty sure these are the skis my parents used to put outside by the front door in the winter, with some festive greens. They are tall, the wood smooth as glass, and the metal tag on them says "Gregg Mfg." There are tattered leather "binders" and rusty metal bits remaining, fragile with age. I'm not sure what I will do with these, but I'll find a fun spot for them. 

Dicy loved images of cherubs, and this little container found a place on my bedroom vanity table in an instant. 

How sweet is this little thumb back chair? 

It has not found its perfect spot just yet, but it will. 


There was a slim blue folder that contained some newspaper articles, pictures of Dicy, my other siblings, and some cousins, all tucked neatly in its pockets. I looked through it while sitting at my kitchen table, and was transported back to the home we grew up in. I could feel the nubby, scratchy fabric of the living room chairs and smell the scent of home. The sound of our childish voices echoing through the walls my father built sounded faintly in some dim corner of my mind. I had a little cry with my breakfast, then moved through my day, checking off my long "to-do" list and feeling the lingering melancholy of time gone by as I worked. 

We had been gifted an entire bushel (54 pounds) of tomatoes, along with onions as big as a baby's head, and a pile of peppers. 



Rachel brought the girls over, and they played underfoot while we worked quickly to core the fruit and toss in garlic, onion, sweet and hot peppers, and a few random zucchini that were lying around into our huge cooker. The house began to smell like a fine Italian restaurant as fragrant steam seeped from under the lid. It's a late-summer tradition, creating delicious sauce to store away and enjoy the taste of harvest season during the cold winter months. 

I puttered about, finding places for Dicy's treasures to roost, breathing in the delicious aromas. A wonderful cook in her own right, a creator of coziness and welcome, I believe she would have approved of my efforts. 

I know that the "things" that surround me in this place are dispensable in the end, but for today, they carry the weight of happy recollections and solace. They nurture my soul, similar to the way the simmering sauce will nurture my body when the cold winter winds blow.          



    


Monday, September 1, 2025

Autumn nesting...

 When you live in an old farmhouse in Maine, fall brings one certain thing. Mice. The wee rodents are no dummies. They know that frigid weather is approaching, and they seek a place to stay warm. I don't dislike mice in general, but I don't want them in my house. Still, I respect the fact that they want to have a cozy nest during the impending cold season. I do, too. 

Our firewood has been delivered and bales of hay are stacked up to see the goats through the winter. We are preparing for the change of seasons.

Although it is still technically summer, a noticeable change in the air is evident. This makes me switch from wanting to dig in the dirt and plant things to thinking about polishing copper and brass, setting out candles, and tossing warm lap blankets about.  It is not a conscious thing, because in reality, the weather is lovely and inviting, but some primal part of my brain wants to make my "nest" cozy. 

Earlier this summer I bought a vintage wooden table, cheap. I wanted a table in the corner of the kitchen, and I wanted it to be painted white. I looked for weeks and found several that had wood so pretty it would have been a crime to paint. Then I found this one... 

Painted black with stenciling around the edges. Those chairs were a kind gift from a friend who was moving. They are sturdy and comfortable, but the shiny cherry finish just didn't quite work in our house. I am a notoriously terrible painter, but I was determined to do a good job on the table. I asked for advice from people who knew better than me, and bought all the right products. I lightly sanded the table all over and used a primer to block out all that black paint. 


It was oppressively hot outside, so I put down a plastic cloth and worked inside with a fan blowing. I tried to do a nice, neat job. It isn't perfect, but I certainly made an effort. 

Those chairs, though. They looked challenging. I tried again to love them the way they were, but it wasn't working. I voiced my concern to my sweet niece, and she quipped, "I'll come paint them!" And she DID. She drove over two hours each way, and then sanded, primed, and oh so carefully painted them for me. What a GIFT! 

Since that niece likes steamed clams, we "paid" her for her epic efforts with a family supper that started out with a pile of "steamers." 
There was also lobster, hot rolls, fresh local corn on the cob, and other treats... but the clams elicited the biggest smile. I know I got the better end of the deal, but she did seem to enjoy our attempt at thanking her.

My sister is visiting this weekend and brought me a tablecloth she brought back from France, but never found a place for, and two matching pillows. They are perfect and really cozy the kitchen corner up. This project soothed a bit of my nesting urges.

Yesterday Deb and I checked out a few antique stores. In one, I was stopped still when I saw a lamp made from an old silver-plated teapot. It sported a pretty shade with some lacy trim. I've been wanting a small lamp to put on the kitchen counter, but needed something sturdy and just the right size. This one fit the bill, but the price tag was $70, which I deemed a bit steep. Still, I felt it belonged in our house. I tried to get Deb to dissuade me, but she was a bad influence, "You NEED that!" And I did. I plunked down the money, and I'm glad.

The transition from summer to fall coincides with fair season, and we visited the Windsor Fair with our daughter and her family. The littles liked seeing the cows, oxen, horses, and pigs. They also enjoyed being pushed around in their little wagon, eating fair food, and both experienced their first rides: a carousel and the spinning tea cups. The smallest one sobbed when she was hauled away from the carousel. I understand.  Change can be a challenge.

The days are a bit shorter, the air more crisp, and my soul knows the seasons are changing. It's the nesting time of year, for both me AND the mice. 

Sunday, August 24, 2025

Pullet peril...

 A few weeks ago, we picked up some new pullets (young female chickens) from a guy about an hour from here that I have bought many birds from over the years. We have them in a little calf hutch right next to the chicken coop, so the existing birds could get used to them. After a week, I began to let them out during the day, so the older chickens and new babes could get to know each other. All has been well, until Thursday evening, when the new birds wandered out of their yard and into our back yard. There, they were startled by a dog, and two of them blasted through the gate and into the flower bed next to the driveway. One of them quickly found her way back, but the other refused to budge. I tried herding. I tried scaring, I tried getting Bravo to push her in the right direction. Evening was gathering, and she was not going anywhere. 

Here is a picture of the new girls before one took off on an unwarranted adventure.   They are mixed-breed birds, bred to lay blue or green eggs, which I think will be fun. The missing bird is the one that is very dark, located towards the front center. 

I waited until well after the sun had gone down because chickens don't see well in the dark. My plan was to find where she had tucked herself  to sleep among the cosmos and zinnias and grab her, then put her back with her flock. My plan worked well. At first. I found her pressed against the foundation of the house, perched on a boulder. Holding my big, heavy flashlight with one hand, I carefully reached through the dense foliage and wrapped my fingers around her small, warm body. Unlike most chickens who freeze in the dark, this one bolted. We searched for a while, but couldn't find her. I didn't sleep well that night, listening to a barred owl calling nearby and hoping it didn't find my hapless bird. 

In the morning, I was delighted to see her strutting amongst the flowers, safe and sound. I felt sure she would find her way through the fence and back to her flock. I checked the garden a few times during the day and didn't see her again, so I assumed she had found her friends. But at dusk, when I went out to tuck the pullets in, there were only eight where there should be nine. The missing girl was nowhere to be found. 

Another night of listening and worrying, thinking about that little lost bird all alone and vulnerable. There was no sign of her amongst the flowers in the morning, and I fretted thinking about her. I ran some errands (checked out a neat vintage market that happened near me and came home with this fabulous egg basket), and while popping home for a moment to pick up something I had forgotten, I heard the unmistakable "pew pew" sound of a young chicken. I found her in the front yard, not a care in the world, scratching amongst some gardens. I tried to catch her, but I failed. Again. I put out a bowl of water and some feed and watched as she ate and drank. 


Later that afternoon, I enlisted the help of Rachel, Evans, and the Owlet. Armed with a big net, we attempted to nab the runaway. She eluded us at every turn. Finally, she streaked across the lawn and dove into a thick bed of Hosta. I waded in after her and caught a glimpse of her dark feathers, hunkered down deep amid the wide leaves. I knew I had to be bold and decisive with my chicken-catching technique, so I braced myself and went in hard, with both hands, elbow-deep in foliage. My fingers gripped her tightly, pinning her wings to her body. I was triumphant and lifted her up and out of the greenery. She squawked in protest and tried to wriggle free, but I kept a firm hold, lifting her over my head like a prize fighter raising their hands in victory. Not only was I holding my (expensive!) pullet, I was holding a good night's sleep in my hands, because I knew that I would rest well knowing she was safe with her flock. 

It felt good to put her back in her hutch with her friends. I'm happier when my pullets are more at peace than in peril! 

Friday, August 22, 2025

Unwritten...

 Sometimes magic happens. After some unseasonably hot, dry days, today was clear, cool, perfect. We had a busy grooming schedule, but the last customer of the day, with two Standard Poodles, didn't show up. I hate to admit I wasn't sad. We cleaned the studio and hatched a plan. The Owlet (3 1/2) had been asking to go out on my beloved kayak with me. 

Rachel met me at the lake. I had the kayak. She had the girls. The Owlet, clad in her bathing suit and a life jacket, eyed my kayak critically. "Why it so SMALL?" she asked. Once she climbed on board, she changed her tune. "This boat BIG!" 

Snuggled against me, she leaned left, trailing her wee fingers in the water. "Are there mermaids here? Dolphins?" We paddled to a dock and startled a cormorant, who half flew, half water-walked away from us. We watched it with delight. I rowed back to the beach to meet her mama and baby sister. The Owlet nimbly climbed out onto the rocky shore, and the Cygnet plopped into my lap. She grabbed for the paddle, "I help!" Her wee hands joined mine, and we swept through the water happily.

Kayaking is a special joy for me. I love the sights, sounds, scents, and sensations. To share it with the grands was an unexpected delight. Their tiny bodies snuggled close to me as we rocked on the water, witnessing fish leaping, turtles paddling, birds taking flight. "Lilies!" The Owlet cried as we passed through a patch of them bobbing on the blue. 

Back in the truck and heading home alone, one of my favorite songs came on. "Unwritten" by Natasha Bedingfield. 

"Release your inhibitionsFeel the rain on your skinNo one else can feel it for youOnly you can let it inNo one else, no one elseCan speak the words on your lipsDrench yourself in words unspokenLive your life with arms wide openToday is where your book beginsThe rest is still unwritten"

I never could have imagined sharing my love of kayaking with wee girls. Their tiny hands splayed on my thighs, their glee in being on a Maine lake with their Lovie readily apparent. They were off on a brand-new adventure, secure in the knowledge that I would keep them safe. I was living life with arms wide open. Every day, my book begins. I can't wait to see what the unwritten future holds. 


 

Saturday, August 16, 2025

Visitor season...

 I had a handful of good friends during my college years. One of them was Jeannine. She was one of the very few friends who came to witness our elopement. We have kept in touch sporadically over the years, and six years ago she came to visit for a couple of days with her husband and teenage son. A few weeks ago, she messaged and said she wanted to get away. She asked if our guest room was available. She's been here for a bit, entertaining herself while I worked every day. Today I had the day off and took her to see some tourist things. She lives in South Carolina, so Maine is a whole different world. 

We went to the top of Mount Battie in Camden, with its amazing views. 



Jeannine climbed the WWI memorial tower. 


The weather was perfect. 
We stopped for a lobster roll and dined overlooking Rockport Harbor. Then I took her to Rockland to see the beautiful breakwater and lighthouse. 


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There were still a few Rosa Rugosa in bloom, but they are waning, and this made me realize, more than any page on the calendar, that summer is winding down. One nice thing about having company from "away" is that it forces us to do summer things to keep them entertained. It's so easy to stay busy at home and think, "We'll do something fun soon..."  Last weekend we went out on a harbor cruise. Our daughter and husband joined us with the grands (3 and a half and 19 months). The three-year-old loved being on the boat and pointed out other boats she wanted to ride on. She was attracted to the schooners. We hope to take her out again before the season is over. 


Chris and I love time on the water together. On this trip we saw lighthouses, seals and porpoise. It was a wonderful day. 

It's fun when people visit and we have a chance to see things around our place through their eyes. Jeannine took pictures of our gardens, and it was a treat to see the way she saw them.  



Last year I had a wild mix of colors in my garden. My sister Deb recommended I stick with pink, white, and purple, so I have. She was right. I've had many compliments on the garden this season. I planted bunches of cosmos, zinnia, and other pink, purple, and white annuals. They'd look even happier if our drought ended. Maybe tomorrow. 

Jeannine leaves on Monday, and sister Deb arrives in two weeks, followed by our sweet friends and neighbors from our Memphis years in September. Then the visiting season will be over, and we will regain our regular duo rhythm.  We enjoy sharing our lifestyle with friends who come to stay, but we also appreciate the days we spend alone. The long days of fall and winter are coming. We will have our solitary days. For now, we enjoy visitors. 
    

                 



Monday, July 28, 2025

The scoop on the coop...

 Our chickens bring me a lot of joy. I love to watch them out ranging about the pasture, and of course, there are those delicious eggs. The birds have a very nice custom-made coop that keeps them safe, but it needed a little freshening up. The door was damaged from years of use and needed to be replaced. The whole thing needed a fresh coat of paint, too. 

I have talked to several carpenters over the past two years about making me a new door. I wanted something more attractive. In fact, I wanted something cute. As soon as a carpenter heard that word, they ceased to have any interest in this small project. Until I ran it by Bill. He's the guy who helped me design and then built the beautiful new decks. He walked away muttering, "Cute. Cute..." and I figured I'd lost him. Then, a couple of weeks later, he said," I have an idea for a cute door." Boy, did he! 

I gave the yard around the coop a hard look, and there was a pretty serious problem that I simply didn't know how to fix. Nine years ago, my friend Brenda did some yard work for me when I was recovering from a dislocated shoulder. She built a little retaining wall of stones around the coop, and it worked great. But the stones had sort of sunk into the ground over the years and though they were still holding dirt in place as intended, they didn't look nice anymore. I asked Brenda if she'd come show me how to fix it, and she did today. In two hours, she dug up all the rocks, smoothed the dirt out, and re-stacked everything beautifully. 

I had the finished product happily visualized in my mind, and I knew mulch would be the frosting on the cake. Chris nicely filled my truck up with the stuff. After Brenda worked her stone magic, I got to work hauling and spreading. And here are the before, during, and after shots. 


                                                  

I am simply delighted with every single thing about the makeover. Especially that cute door! To celebrate we are picking up some new pullets this weekend. They will surely appreciate their pretty new digs! 




Friday, July 4, 2025

New for twenty two...

 We moved to Maine 22 years ago this week. I loved this house the first time I saw the realtor's photo of it, and I am so grateful to live here. We have made the place our own over the years, with lots of fresh paint, a roof, a furnace, landscaping, and more. When we bought this house, there was a deck that was part of our main entrance. 

The boards and supports began to get spongy last year, and the whole thing needed to be replaced. Finding a contractor was a trick. I tried for months. This was frustrating, but in the end, it was a gift, because with the help of friends, I realized there were better options for this structure, which didn't really suit our 100+ year old house. 

Another friend found me a contractor who not only wanted to take on our project, but totally "got" me. I'd explain what I was thinking of, and he would add perfect suggestions. About a month ago, he and his team got started making my house dreams come true. I enjoyed having them here and loved watching them create beauty around our cozy home. The end results are a delight. 



They tore off the old, rotten deck and built a beautiful new entryway. This greatly enlarged my favorite flowerbed. They made the prettiest little picket fence and gate. Then they spruced up the entry to the grooming studio, which is on the front porch. 

While they were at it, they replaced the under-house lattice skirting (which I never liked) with something much nicer. 

Best of all, they cut an enormous hole in my dining room wall, removing the small, off-center window and installing a large French door.

 Beyond that door, they built a 16 ' by 16' deck. Chris and I love being in our backyard and have talked about installing a deck for decades. It was a fun adventure to design what we had been dreaming about and then watch as the dream came beautifully true. 


On the twenty-second anniversary of moving to Maine, we gave our house a little facelift. 

I think she approves.