Sunday, March 31, 2024

Celebrations...

We call it the "Birthdaversary," and it rolls around every year on March 31st, which happens to be my birthday. Forty years ago, my then fiancĂ© asked me what I wanted for my birthday. Desperately in love, I told him, "I want to spend the rest of my life with you." He is an expert at making my wishes come true and set to work arranging for us to elope on my birthday. And we did. 

 So, today, we celebrate forty years of dreams shared and accomplished, side by side. 


Marti Stone Photography

Marti Stone Photography

Like everyone else, we have experienced challenges and successes, tears and laughter. But mostly, we have had so much joy. We both feel grateful every day for the life we have created, for the peaceful home we share, and for the sweet relationships with our daughter and son-in-love and their healthy, happy children. Sometimes, we catch one another's eye at the dinner table and smile, surrounded by friends and family, the chatter of a toddler, and the cadence and rhythm of voices and laughter as we share a meal. It is riches beyond measure this life we live. 






Sunday, March 24, 2024

A cold and the cold...

 I have a little cold. Usually, when I get a virus, I keep plugging along and stay sick for two weeks or more. When my husband or son-in-love get a virus, they rest like it's their job for 24 or 48 hours and get well fast. I'm a slow study, but I am trying to emulate them this time. It's good timing because the weekend weather was cold and stormy, and laying low was convenient. 

When we woke up yesterday, it was snowing. I got up, took the dogs out, and gave the chickens and goats water. I fed them, gave them treats, and filled the hay rack. Two inches of fresh snow lay on the ground. I came back inside and went right upstairs and snuggled into my warm bed with a good book. I stayed there for several hours, watching the snow fall and resting. We spent the rest of the day being quiet. We made popcorn and watched a movie. By evening, the snow had accumulated to about six inches, and the precipitation had turned to freezing rain. 

By the time we turned in for the night, ice had begun building up on every surface it encountered. I had trouble falling asleep, coughing, and sneezing because of my cold. As usual, my darling fell asleep instantly, so he did not hear the crashing of falling, ice-covered limbs outside. We lost electricity at ten thirty, and I realized it could be out for a long time. I forced myself to get up and stir the embers in the wood stove, adding kindling and stepping barefoot out into the storm to load my arms with wood. I stoked the stove and sat in the quiet dark until the flames caught. I wanted to ensure the fire was going so we would not wake to a cold house. I slept fitfully (so much for resting!), listening to the wind drilling ice against the windows and the occasional crash of falling branches. 

We woke this morning to a silent house. The background appliance sounds of the refrigerator humming and the quiet rumble of the furnace in the basement are usually unnoticed. Still, their absence makes the house feel different. The dogs became restless, and I suspect it was because the house sounded different. 

When I did chores, it was icy underfoot. I had to skate back to the garage to get a hammer to bash the ice off the latches to the goat cozy before I could open the door. The goats knew I was outside their door, carrying breakfast, and they let their disapproval of my delay be loudly known. When I finally wrestled the door open, they rushed out, giving me sideways glances as they dove into breakfast. I left the chickens safe in their coops. 

Huge limbs and fallen trees blocked the roads on either side of our house. A neighbor stopped his truck, pulled out a chainsaw, and cleared one side. We walked up the street and cut and hauled huge pine limbs that had fallen from our neighbor's tree into the street and onto our property. 

Back inside, we made mugs of tea and hot breakfast. We sat by the wood stove where it was warm and cozy. It was late morning before the power was restored. The washing machine resumed its interrupted cycle. I rinsed the dishes. We took welcome showers. The sky cleared, and everywhere there were sparkles. 

And hungry birds. 

To our surprise and delight, someone nipped in and plowed the driveway for us. It had been too frozen for the snowblower, and we had been dreading trying to scrape and shovel. The kindness warmed us.
We went out for a bite, awed to see how many trees were down in the neighborhood. There will be a lot of cleaning up for weeks to come. March is coming to an end, but winter is hanging tightly with its icy grip. I will be glad when my cold and THE cold pass. 

Sunday, March 17, 2024

Mail...

 A few weeks ago, I received a special envelope in my mailbox. It was from my older cousin Karen, who lives in Tasmania, Australia. She has been sorting through old correspondence and family photos and sending items off to various relatives who she thought might find them interesting. My envelope had a few photos and many letters from my father to his brother (her father) during World War II. 

It made my heart ache a little to see his familiar penmanship, and it was fascinating to read his words to his older brother. It gave me a pang to see that the two were obviously once very close. In my lifetime, they were little more than cordial neighbors. 

One envelope held a special delight. It was a tiny piece of stationary and a letter written from my father and mother to my uncle. They were on their honeymoon at Easter Slopes Inn in North Conway, New Hampshire. My uncle was somewhere in the Pacific. The date was December 28, 1945. In my father's thin, sloping hand, it says, "Dear Pete,  This is all the paper I can find, but I want to send a line or two and say hello. Dot and I were married on the 26th and are here for a week. It is wonderful up here; so far, married life is wonderful, and I am sure it will continue to be so. I've got me a wonderful wife. Sorry for such a lack of writing on my part, but I have been so busy, and after writing so much for four years, it felt good not to for a while. Will do better from now on 'tho. Our car runs well but uses oil to beat hell. I get to 50 miles. It may do better after it has run for a while. Hope so. Well, Pete, we wish you had been here to be the best man, but we couldn't wait. All for now. Dot wants to say hello. Hope to see you soon. Dave." 

Next comes my mothers addition. Her penmanship is round and loopy and pulls my heartstrings. "Dear Peter, We waited so long we decided not to wait any longer- much to everyone's surprise (I don't think.) Being married is certainly wonderful but it makes me feel so old and respectable. Seriously tho', I'm so happy I'm walking on air. It's heavenly up here and a perfect place for a honeymoon. We will hate to leave I know. I hope you can come home soon, Pete. We all miss you, Love, Dorothy."

Here is evidence of the beginning of my history, my newlywed parents on their honeymoon, "walking on air." They stayed married until death did them part, my father never failing to kiss my mother on his way out the door to work in the morning. I grew up feeling safe and secure in their union, a blessing I don't take for granted. The inn where they celebrated their life together is still there. You can see it here: https://easternslopeinn.com/  . Chris and I plan to spend a weekend there soon to walk the grounds my parents walked and acknowledge this moment in my family history.  

My kind cousin sent me a chubby envelope full of yesteryear. I am so grateful. 



Sunday, March 10, 2024

Pysanky eggs...

 Our sweet friends Kathy and Scott invited us again to make pysanky eggs. They are an artistic group that create the most beautiful designs. My creative leanings don't lend themselves to this direction, but oh! It's such fun to try. 

A special tool applies melted beeswax to the eggs, creating a pattern the dye will not cover. Multiple layers of designs and dyes can be used. The dyes are the most beautiful colors and the people in the group with more talent than I have created the loveliest, most intricate patterns. 


My friend tells us that some of the eggs in this basket are fifty years old. She can lift each egg and tell who created it. The basket is full of beauty, both physically and in lovely memories. 




It was cold and raining hard today with a wild wind. The roads were awash with water in spots, and little brooks flowed along the hillsides where brooks are generally not seen. The trees bobbed and danced in the gusts. We braved the squall to get to the door when we arrived at our destination. It was a happy surprise to see snowdrops blooming by the entryway.

Inside, it was warm and welcoming. They have the coziest house. 


Everywhere one looks, there are books, beauty, art, and comfortable spots that invite a person to curl up and soak up the snugness. Maple sap steamed in huge pots on top of a wood stove boasting dancing flames. A buffet of delicious food awaited, warm brie and crackers, quiche, deviled eggs, raspberry scones, home baked Sally Lunn buns with a drizzle of maple syrup made this season from trees they tapped themselves. Everything was a feast for the senses. 

As the storm raged, we gathered around a sturdy table lit by an abundance of candles. We nibbled, chatted, and created. My new granddaughter was passed from person to person, causing smiles all around. 

We came home with our delicate egg creations, happy hearts, and sweet new memories. 


Saturday, March 9, 2024

March...

 A lot of people in New England dislike March. It can be wet, cold, and muddy. We are ready for spring, and March seems to stretch on endlessly, a long, chilly pause between winter and spring. As for me, March is a happy month. It's the month it all began for me because it is when I was born. It is the month my beloved pledged to be mine forever, and five years later, the month our precious daughter arrived. 

                                                

The entire long day was stretched out before me when I woke up this morning. It was overcast but in the 30s, so it was decent weather for working outside. I put on boots and work gloves and spent the entire day outdoors puttering. I cleaned the small chicken coop, put down fresh shavings, and cleaned food and water bowls. It looked so nice when I was finished. Here are before-and-after pictures. 


Next, I picked up some windblown trash from the yard. On a whim, I lit a fire in the fire ring. I piled on branches from a bucket full of winter evergreen boughs, and the air was soon perfumed with spicy smoke. Scraps of cardboard got tossed on, too. I moved to the big coop and cleaned it out. Several hens were waiting to use the nest boxes to lay eggs, and they complained to me loudly. They stomped in and out of the coop, clucking fussily and giving me the stink eye. I tried to work fast. They filed in and presented me with a half dozen eggs as soon as I was done. 

I cleaned the yard more and sat at our picnic table, looking at the fire and planning what I'd like to accomplish in the gardens this year. I am excited because I can work without pain now that I have my excellent new knee, and the possibilities are exciting. Canada Geese winged overhead, calling their haunting song, urging me to get moving, too. 



Finally, I tackled the goat cozy. For the last two months, I have let hay pile up to create a deep layer of bedding to help the goats stay warm on cold nights. This worked well; the top layer of hay was clean and dry, but we found that underneath was heavy and wet as we cleaned. Thankfully, Chris helped me do some of the heavy lifting. We forked up six or seven huge loads of dirty shavings and hay and hauled them outside. We swept the floor and put down clean, bright shavings. The goats ran in and out excitedly, investigating our work and snorting as they breathed in the crisp pine scent.

Afterward, Chris and I sat by the fire for a little while, enjoying a glass of wine. It was chilly but an excellent harbinger of warm days to come.  As dusk gathered, the chickens filed into their coops and hopped up on their roosts, muttering contentedly. The goats gathered around their hay feeder, and I put bright spring bandanas on them. After their meal, they snuggled in their clean shavings. Tomorrow, it is supposed to rain and storm all day. I will be happy knowing all the animals have tidy homes where they can weather the storm.

March may not be everyone's cup of tea, but it is a month I cherish. The days get longer, and the sun feels warmer. Migratory birds return and begin to scout for mates and nests and try out their voices for the upcoming spring chorus. It is time to clean up after the long winter, celebrate births, joyously observe our anniversary, and begin to plan for gardening and summer projects.